<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>二児パパ、生存中 — in English</title><description>English versions of posts from a Nagoya dad reading the parenting research at 3 a.m.</description><link>https://nijidad.com/</link><language>en</language><item><title>The Bedtime Floor Killed My Back. Enter the Camping Air Mattress.</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/air-mat-saved-my-back/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/air-mat-saved-my-back/</guid><description>I kept falling asleep on the floor next to my kid at bedtime, and my thirties-era back kept sending me the bill. A camping air mattress fixed it. Here is what it actually does well, and the two things nobody mentions.</description><pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>寝かしつけ</category></item><item><title>What You Can Claim During Pregnancy in Japan: The Order Matters Far More Than the List</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/ninshinchu-ni-moraeru-mono/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/ninshinchu-ni-moraeru-mono/</guid><description>Search for pregnancy freebies in Japan and you get samples worth a few hundred yen. The 100,000 yen is at city hall. 33 items, in the order I&apos;d claim them.</description><pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>妊娠</category><category>手続き</category></item><item><title>Bouncing Squats and Car Rides Have Almost No Evidence — Plus the &quot;Where They Fell Asleep&quot; Trap</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/squat-drive-sitting-devices/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/squat-drive-sitting-devices/</guid><description>I couldn&apos;t find a controlled trial behind the birth ball or the sleepy drive — untested, not disproven. Once asleep, move her onto a firm, flat surface.</description><pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2026 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>寝かしつけ</category></item><item><title>Swaddling and White Noise Worked — But Each Has a Point Where You Stop</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/swaddle-whitenoise-lullaby/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/swaddle-whitenoise-lullaby/</guid><description>Three bedtime tools with real evidence behind them, each with a condition: on the back only, stop the moment she rolls, keep the sound away from the head.</description><pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2026 12:30:00 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>寝かしつけ</category></item><item><title>&quot;Calm&quot; and &quot;Asleep&quot; Aren&apos;t the Same Thing: Splitting Bedtime Into Four Problems</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/sleep-four-outcomes/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/sleep-four-outcomes/</guid><description>Calm, fall asleep, stay asleep, sleep safely: four goals, one trick rarely does two. Arms, carriers and car seats calm a baby without being safe to sleep in.</description><pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2026 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>寝かしつけ</category></item><item><title>Subtracting Beats Adding: What Actually Moves the Numbers on Safe Infant Sleep</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/sids-tasu-yori-hiku/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/sids-tasu-yori-hiku/</guid><description>The protective numbers stop at roughly half. The hazard numbers run to 2x, 5x, 11x. So I stopped shopping for safety and took away the towel under her head.</description><pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2026 02:40:00 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>寝かしつけ</category></item><item><title>Only Two Pieces of Post-Birth Paperwork in Japan Are Genuinely Urgent. The Rest Can Wait Their Turn</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/sango-tetsuzuki-kigen/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/sango-tetsuzuki-kigen/</guid><description>Birth registration is 14 days, child allowance is 15 — the two weeks parents are least able to function. Everything else is a guideline, not a deadline.</description><pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>手続き</category></item><item><title>Your Kid Will Answer You in Japanese. It Isn&apos;t Because You Failed</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/nihongo-de-itte/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/nihongo-de-itte/</guid><description>My three-year-old tells me to say it in Japanese. The arithmetic says 47 years to catch up to my grade-school English. So I moved the target to understanding.</description><pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2026 14:58:15 GMT</pubDate><category>3歳</category><category>英語</category></item><item><title>Meijo Park&apos;s &quot;Kodomo no Hiroba&quot; Works From Age Zero. I Went and Looked at the Fenced Area at 5:51 a.m.</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/meijo-kodomo-hiroba/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/meijo-kodomo-hiroba/</guid><description>Eight photos: the fenced 0–2 area on the north side of Ofuke Pond, stroller parking just outside it, and &quot;CAUTION: HOT&quot; printed on a slide. All of it free.</description><pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2026 13:40:00 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>3歳</category></item><item><title>&quot;Out-of-City Visitors: Reservation Required&quot; Nearly Made Me Close the Tab. How to Get Into Komaki Kodomo Miraikan From Nagoya</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/komaki-miraikan-yoyaku/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/komaki-miraikan-yoyaku/</guid><description>You can go from outside Komaki, but holidays are booking-only at 400 yen a head. The smartphone-only lottery opens 31 days out. All worked out before we go.</description><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2026 05:21:03 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category></item><item><title>Weekend Outings from Meijo Koen Station: Every Spot We Actually Go To (Outdoor, Indoor, Mostly Free)</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/meijo-koen-odekake-spots/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/meijo-koen-odekake-spots/</guid><description>With a three-year-old and a baby in tow: a free sewer museum five minutes from the station, a zoo that&apos;s free for kids, and a hangar of planes in Toyoyama.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 14:23:59 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>If Your Baby Cries the Second You Sit Down, Get Up and Walk</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/transport-response/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/transport-response/</guid><description>Walk and the crying stops; sit down and it starts again. It is called the transport response: walk 5 minutes, sit 5–8 more, then put them down.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 13:17:06 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category></item><item><title>It Never Said &quot;Stop Co-Sleeping&quot;: Building a Safe Sleep Environment (A Serious One)</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/safe-sleep-asia/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/safe-sleep-asia/</guid><description>The guidelines never say &quot;stop co-sleeping&quot; — they say same room, separate sleep surface. Four things to take home, and why knowing them was not enough.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:54:43 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>寝かしつけ</category></item><item><title>“Moisturize and They Won’t Get Allergies” Turned Out to Be Too Simple: Eczema and Food Allergies</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hoshitsu-to-allergy/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hoshitsu-to-allergy/</guid><description>A Cochrane review found it hard to say moisturizer alone prevents eczema in healthy babies. That is not a reason to stop caring for skin that already needs it.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:54:10 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>アレルギー</category></item><item><title>The Day I Closed the Parenting Book Without a Word: For Vaccine Schedules, Trust Today&apos;s Official Sources</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/vaccine-schedule-today/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/vaccine-schedule-today/</guid><description>The schedule chart in the secondhand parenting book was already out of date. Rotavirus and the 5-in-1 start at 2 months — check today&apos;s official pages.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:53:45 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>予防接種</category></item><item><title>No Honey, and Water at 70°C: Feeding a Baby Under One Has Surprisingly Few &apos;Absolutes&apos;</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hachimitsu-to-70do/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hachimitsu-to-70do/</guid><description>Only two real absolutes for feeding a baby under one: no honey before age one, and formula mixed at 70°C or hotter. Read weight as a line, not a point.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:52:37 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>離乳食</category></item><item><title>Why Talk to Someone Who Can&apos;t Talk Back? The Answer From 102 Trials</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hanashikake-no-imi/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hanashikake-no-imi/</guid><description>102 trials across 33 countries say talking to your baby works — and the biggest change showed up on the parents&apos; side. You respond to the signals they send.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:52:11 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>発達</category></item><item><title>All My 3 a.m. Searching Left Me Was Anxiety: A Reading Order for Parenting Information</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/ikuji-joho-jun/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/ikuji-joho-jun/</guid><description>An hour of searching at 3 a.m. left me nothing but anxiety. The problem wasn&apos;t the amount of information — it was the order. Five sources, five jobs.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:50:33 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category></item><item><title>How Not to Gain Weight on No Sleep: Protein, Iron, and That Marvel of Civilization, the Hot Pot</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/protein-iron-nabe/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/protein-iron-nabe/</guid><description>You cannot out-willpower sleep-deprived hunger. A palm-sized serving of protein at every meal, iron for my breastfeeding wife, and exactly one pot to wash.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 03:51:53 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category></item><item><title>Midnight Ice Cream and Chips Weren’t Weak Willpower: Sleep Deprivation and Weight (A Serious One)</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/sleep-and-weight/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/sleep-and-weight/</guid><description>Sleeping 1.2 hours more a day cut calorie intake by 270 kcal. Gaining weight while raising a baby is not weak willpower — it is physiology.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 03:50:05 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category></item><item><title>What Should the Grown-Ups Eat in Year One? Food for Staying Upright</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/year-one-meals/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/year-one-meals/</guid><description>Breastfeeding officially adds 350 kcal and 20 g of protein a day to what you need. How much coffee is realistic, and a shortcut list with no shame attached.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 01:07:11 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category></item><item><title>One Dad, a 0-Year-Old and a 3-Year-Old at Meijo Park: A Field Test</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/meijo-park-solo-papa/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/meijo-park-solo-papa/</guid><description>Saturday morning in Nagoya: one father, two kids, two hours. Where to change a diaper, how far the stroller gets you, and the golden line for how long to stay.</description><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 21:14:29 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>3歳</category></item><item><title>One Hour to Get Her Down. One Creak to Undo It.</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/creaky-floor-defeat/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/creaky-floor-defeat/</guid><description>Seventy-two minutes of bedtime, flawless. Three steps from the door, the floorboard spoke. Why our floor only creaks at night, and the post-match analysis.</description><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 21:14:05 GMT</pubDate><category>3歳</category></item><item><title>The Night I Didn&apos;t Hear the Baby Cry</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/night-i-didnt-hear-crying/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/night-i-didnt-hear-crying/</guid><description>Right beside me the baby cried, my wife got up, changed, fed and settled everyone — and I slept through every second of it. The night I heard nothing.</description><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 18:08:31 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>So I Started a Blog. (At 3 a.m.)</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hajimemashita-3am/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hajimemashita-3am/</guid><description>A dad in Nagoya, standing in a dim kitchen at 3 a.m. shaking a bottle, wondering how many others were awake too. Why this blog exists, and who it is for.</description><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 17:16:35 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>